Finding The Perfect One

People wish to get wedded to the one who is the best fit for their personality. Thus, this search for one's better half actually reveals to oneself the essence of their real core. Now this can help folks better themselves forever and especially for the new wedded life.

Knowing what kinda person one needs, there is detailing to oneself what they are indeed. Holding onto values is awesome; likewise, it is time minuses got wiped off for newer peace. If wanting to wed the perfect match is acceptable, then becoming the best version of oneself is mandatory for marriage. When this truly makes sense and finds acceptance in oneself, what follows thereafter is blossoming of the perfect one. Yeah, spiritually empowered souls perfect themselves before expecting the other to be of the same order. Agree?

And when one is carving out that beautiful being in oneself, the blessed truth seekers will witness their Sadhana's support as well. Spiritual practices hike one's awareness and unbelievably accelerate one's real personal growth. Thereafter, chances of meeting that #SpecialSomeone also increases manifold, as life then yields to oneself owing to their newer inner wellness. Thus, now comes the need to forever stay rooted in the truth that all this has been possible by the virtue of one's Sadhana that had kindled the Grace of The Divine within. Otherwise, one badly falls prey to the falsehood called "ego."

The tale of Savithri and Sathyavaan is a reminder that even death may be defeated when one is deep rooted in intelligence and yet not identified with it. Savithri struggled to find someone who would be her equal. And when death willed separation after a year of marriage, her sheer determination and intelligence helped twist the tale. On being offered just one boon by the Lord of Death, she wished her father-in-law gets to see his grandchildren sleeping in cradles studded with diamonds from his lost palace. By this, she indirectly forced the revival of her husband's life; also, had her father-in-law's eyesight and kingdom restored. Savithri's intelligence instantaneously turned the table around ONLY because she unleashed her intelligence without being proud of itself. She was aware she was a class apart; but she was never egoistic that her intelligence rescued her love from the clutches of fate.

Karadaiyaan Nombu is the celebration of Savithri's unfathomable victory. The Day is also perceived as the Jayanthi of Goddess Gauri, whom Savithri worshiped for her all-rounded well-being. And Gauri is that manifestation of Parvathi, whom householders must worship for the best in every step of family life.