What's Happening?
That exhilarating feeling called "love" is still all alive. Everything seems fine now, but why is there this new fear of the future? What is normal and acceptable now, is definitely not as beautiful as it was at the beginning. And that's what creates this confusion if the coming together will be delightful till the end.
Agreed that everyday is not gonna be so special and the same. The new doubt has arisen despite this understanding. Thus, it does deserve much treatment for total dissolution. Anyways thank the confusion because this is something beautiful and BIG enough to ponder together.
Take out some time for yourself before the meeting. Wish your person too does the same at their side. Yeah, we wish you forward these words of ours. Because solitude brings in clarity, which will make (work or personal) relationships work and last for lifetimes, you duo work with yourself before that time together.
Keep aside any advice from anybody whosoever. Also, cut out other worries from your world. Yes, keep all distractions down. Now you sink into the needs of yourself and the desires of your love. Find by yourself what is absent despite all the love. Question your core what is lacking from your side and what is that you are missing out from the other. Delve into yourself as though you are in meditation, so there you know pure perception of your beloved and yourself.
Keep aside any advice from anybody whosoever. Also, cut out other worries from your world. Yes, keep all distractions down. Now you sink into the needs of yourself and the desires of your love. Find by yourself what is absent despite all the love. Question your core what is lacking from your side and what is that you are missing out from the other. Delve into yourself as though you are in meditation, so there you know pure perception of your beloved and yourself.
Come together, when nothing else wants the two of you. After sincere me-time, you are both ready for conversation and more. Open up on your concerns and ask what you indeed want. Be genuine. Your honesty can not hurt your love, so don't utter words that you don't really mean. In that blatant truthfulness, see your blues gone. Let your person get you and give you answers, words you are really yearning for.